I found this posting via Reddit about an ED doc's advice to narc seekers posted a couple years ago. I like the first point he makes:
The first rule is be nice to the nurses. They are underpaid, overworked, and have a lot more influence over your stay in the ER than you think. When you are tempted to treat them like shit because they are not the ones who write the rx, remember: I might write for you to get a shot of 2mg of dilaudid, but your behavior toward the nurses determines what percent of that dilaudid is squirted onto the floor before you get your shot.
We as nurses make the call on what to give to our patients based on our objective analysis of our patient's situation. I do not give pain meds to patients who are loopy, drifting in and out of conversation, or who yell explicits at me when they don't get what they want. Over time I know what to look for in narc seekers, especially when they keep being admitted to the floor (why I don't know).
It's also hard to be compassionate when I see patients walk up to the post-op surgical floor, demand to be admitted for pain management while completely bypassing the ED, and wanting to talk with their surgeon. I see it over and over again. However, it's like the story of the boy who cried wolf: you never know until it too late sometimes.
Anywho the Craigslist posting great piece. I recommend you read and share during shift report.
